I believe that wearing your Dominants collar means that not only that you have given the gift of yourself completely but also that your Dominant has accepted the responsibility to care for His/Her submissive. Its a symbol of His/Her love and devotion-- not just a mere sign of ownership.
The collar shows everyone that your Dominant is there to listen to your problems and fears and HELP you through them and that you are there for your Dominant too.
Its a visible symbol of the trust and affection the two of you share for each other. Its a commitment not only of sub to Dominant but Dominant to sub. A way to let others know that you are owned, loved, protected and are to be respected for it. Showing everyone that Dominant belongs to submissive just as much as submissive belongs to Dominant.
The gift of yourself is one of the most precious gifts you can give and sometimes people forget that. I wish I could say these insightful words were my own but I cannot. It was a lesson learned by this little slave girl.
I'm posting this in hopes that maybe someone will read them and think twice before jumping into to a collar situation. Making sure that you both are aware and agree on what the collar means BEFORE things end in a disaster of hurt feelings and pain. Thank you for your time and attention to my ramblings
-- MOK's girl lil devil.
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